Controversial marriage counsellor, Dr Mrs Charlotte Oduro has advised wives not to deny their husbands sex when their pockets are empty.
According to her, most men need sex as a form of relaxation because he is already stressed and for that matter, as a wife, you do not have to add to his worries.
She made this known during an interview with Accra based Onua FM
“Why should you even demand money from your husband before you allow him to have sex with you? Some wives are becoming very inconsiderate. They complain they get nothing rewarding after sex. This is wrong.”
She observed that quite a number of women, only hail their husbands when they are worthy and do the opposite when they are broke, a situation she vehemently condemned.
“It is not easy for a man when he’s not able to take responsibility at home. Sometimes, it’s difficult for them to cry in your presence but they are going through pain,” she told host Dr Prekese while highlighting the benefits of sex.
“Treat him well when he wants sex. It makes him more relaxed and when you’re relaxed, you’re able to think fast. It helps. Every man needs a woman that can encourage him when he’s dispirited.”
Madam Oduro further admonished wives to not denigrate their husbands but to show them respect regardless of their situation.
“If you maltreat him, do you expect him to come back to you when he is back on his feet? Please, if you have the means, help your husband because it is in your interest and your children’s interest for him to succeed,” she counselled.
Source: Mybrytfmonline/Joseph Asare